🦋 You Are Not Doing It Wrong

You are not broken.You are not too much.You are not radiating something “wrong.”

You’re just speaking a language most people don’t recognize.Your energy—your sensitivity, your honesty, your depth—isn’t the problem.

It’s actually your gift.

But when you’ve spent your whole life trying to hide that gift,and people suddenly start reacting to it with confusion, discomfort, or even defensiveness,it’s easy to think you are the one doing harm.

You’re not.

People react to what they don’t understand.

Sometimes your authenticity reminds them of parts of themselves they’ve buried.

Sometimes your presence triggers their fear, not because you are unsafe,but because you make them feel seen—and they’re not ready for that.

It’s not your job to shrink to keep others comfortable.

It’s not your job to carry their shame.

Your only task is to stay curious,to learn to sit with your own discomfort without turning it into punishment,and to slowly, gently trust that being real is safer than being invisible.

So when the fear feels big, and the reactions feel personal—remember:

this is their stuff, not yours.

You are allowed to take up space.

You are allowed to feel good.

You are allowed to be exactly as you are—and still be worthy of love.